Why relationships fail

Failed relationships are failed expectations. If you have at least one good, close, mutually satisfying relationship, consider yourself lucky. There are many reasons why relationships fail. There are romantic relationships, friendships between men, women, or men and women.

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First reason why relationships fail is because people don't know how to have a relationship. It's this simple. People think they should do whatever they feel and don't like commitments and obligations. Everyone wants to be happy and in search for happiness they go from one failed relationship to another.

Another reason why relationships fail is because of power imbalance. Every relationship has to have power balance and when a power imbalance occurs, relationships break or suffer. You don't have a complete control over your relationship because another person is involved. You have a chance to become vulnerable and get hurt just because another person has his own issues.

Relationships fail because of build up frustration on either side. Failed expectations build up frustration and one person will eventually break up if he doesn't see a way to fix things. Always be open to communication because maybe your problem isn't as big as it seems to you and the other person would be ready for a compromise. So, whatever relationship you are having right now, it's o'kay because not everyone is ready for a deep commitment and real closeness.

When you do get older it can be harder to find a relationship because of hurt and pain in your past. Everyone has different past in life which shaped your desires, beliefs, wants and attraction.

A lot of men have problems with relationships and give up too easily because they were never really close with his "guy friends" and never experienced a natural bond that women have with each other. Women could have similar closeness with women friends whereas men usually are not as close to other men.

People have different wants. Men usually want marriage, love or sex, whereas women would love to keep a relationship just for the sake of relationship if she likes someone. Men are a lot more goal oriented whether they want to be in a relationship or not, I think.

Also, relationships fail because people are not sure what the other person wants. They kind of trying to guess what each wants or expects and it makes it even harder. Many people making mistake by assuming that the other person has similar wants and desires.

If you are just started a relationship with someone, don't trust someone easily, you could push someone away if you trust so much. You need to be certain first before you trust anyone more. It can be frustrating to take short steps but it worth it. Be careful and try to guess right what the other person wants and needs.

Some people have better social iq or better social intelligence than others

One more reason why relationships fail is because people fail to convince each other how much they really like each other. It is really hard to convince someone like that. They could think you are just a nice person and won't really beleive that you really care about them. So, it can be frustrating.

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