Why do men like dominant women
Some men really like dominant women. Why would a man like dominant woman you might think. Is dominance an ultimate power? When you think about dominant women you think about someone who is aggressive, takes charge and leads, someone who isn't affraid of rejection and will do anything to get you.
Dominant women can be attractive. Any guy would like to think his woman likes him, wants him and desires him.
Most men prefer a
dominant woman sexually only, because dominance in other areas of life is often interpreted as rejection.
If a woman is dominant at work, or at home with household chores, a man could think she doesn't like him if she acts dominant with him. Women were conditioned for so long to act nice to show that you like someone.
I know if from my own experience. Since my childhood, my mother always told me to walk like a lady because I liked to walk waving my arms really wide and take wide steps. Walking like a lady meant to take smaller steps and don't wave my arms as much. I wondered why should I care if I walk like a lady or not, but my mother cared. To this day, I'm not sure if I learned to walk like she wants me too but I definitely learned that being nice and act certain way is sign of a being a true woman.
Every woman is tom boy in heart, only social conditioning and life experience taught us to act more feminine and desirable. Sexually, most women aren't dominant though because of what happened during adolescence and then it effects rest of her life.
Maybe men are looking for that side of a woman that is strong, attractive and shows love.
Some men do associate dominance with love. Is it bad? Is it really bad if a man desires to become submissive and he wants dominant woman?
I think it's o'kay as long as they are both happy. It could be embarrassing for a man to admit he is submissive around other men or society but if he wants to give up control once in a while for his lady why is it bad. Who is really submissive of them two? He has more power than she does. She has to try harder, work harder, take charge and lead, so she is more of a server for him then.
People look at power in a certain way only. But there is power in being dominant and being submissive. Look for example at some nice people in your life. Some of the nicest people could be the most controlling people in your life.
Do you have pets? Who is the real master out of you both? You or your cat/dog?
I have a cat though and all he has to do is to say his sweet "Meow!" and I will run to feed him or cuddle him.
If something happened in a man's life during his childhood, adolescence he would be attracted to dominant women or submissive women. They get fixated over it and it's attractive to them.
They love the power, but they love to experience and admire power in a different way and unusual way.
If a man is shy, he could get attracted to dominant women because he wouldn't feel rejected as much and he would feel desired.
Men love dominant women because they associate it with love and attraction.
Men want to please a woman and make her happy. Any man wants to please his woman and see her happy, some prefer to do it sexually though.
They are trying to chase a fantasy that they think is good for them and means something to them.