Very tall women want taller men
Reader question:
Hey Corina!! I'm 18, thin and 6 ft tall and I'm so happy i came across your site. I go through alot of what you've gone through and its nice to see someone who totally understands me.
I'm very confident and everyone tells me I'm beautiful or i should be a model. I know I'm good-looking and everything but I'm really insecure about getting a guy because of my height. I have nothing against short men but i would rather date someone taller than me. I feel like tall men don't like tall women though and i really don't want to date anyone shorter than me because it feels awkward and weird. What do you think my chances of finding a Taller men are?
Corina's response:
Victoria, you worry about it right now because you are very young, it's alright that you want to date taller men only. I thought I wanted to date taller guys only until I met a very amazing short man later.
All very young single women have a fantasy to meet a tall handsome Prince Charming who will make her happy.
Sometimes later in life you could discover that shorter man can make you even happier, you never know what your future holds for you, so do what you feel is right for you right now. If you are very attracted to taller men, go for it, why not? If it makes you happy.
It will be great if you'll find a taller man that makes you happy. But, if you, accidentally, will fall in love with a shorter man, you could discover that he makes you happier than any tall men out there. Attraction and love isn't always a choice or mental decision, you can't always predict who you will love, but you definitely can choose who you will date or marry.
Tall men do like tall women
As far as your concern that tall men don't like tall women...sure they like tall women, you just haven't met many tall men yet. Your goal is to meet as many tall men as possible, so then YOU can choose who you like and let them to pursue you. Many women don't go out a lot or live in small town, so it makes it harder for them to meet many tall quality men. But this is really is a key to find what you want, if you really want to meet a taller man, if it's so important to you, you would do anything to find it.
Every time someone says they just can't find a wife or husband, I think they don't want it really bad. If you really want it so much, you will try day and night looking for your love partner. If it's a true desire in your heart, you will do anything possible to get it. Otherwise, most people, seriously, don't want it strong enough and don't have enough fire and faith in them going to pursue what they want.
Women who want only tall men, might have to try harder to go places to meet them. How do you do that? You can go out a lot, join different groups and activities, move to a bigger city, try online dating, get a job where more men work and etc.
Your chances of meeting a taller man
If you don't try to increase your chances of meeting a taller man, then there are not many chances. You have to do something to increase your chances to meet taller men. People who sit at home and don't go anywhere don't have any chances to meet any men!
If dating and marriage is important to you, I don't see anything wrong trying to do something about it. For example, when jobs are important to people, they aren't embarrassed to look for a job, but somehow, in our society it's still embarrassing to some people trying to look for love. If dating and marriage is very important to you, then there is nothing wrong to take it seriously and do something about it.
Another challenge, once you find enough taller men, you have to have another big list of requirements, such as personality compatibility, sexual chemistry, similar beliefs and values.
Do the best you can. Some women have fear of dating, some women/or men can't handle emotionally excessive dating. There are many reasons why some people try harder and others don't. If you can emotionally afford, to try to increase your chances in meeting your perfect partner, then go for it.