I'd like to say a word of encouragement not only to tall big beautiful women but also to any woman who wants to loose weight or wants to loose "last a few pounds".
Being beautiful is very important to every woman, feeling beautiful and attractive is only important because makes women feel good about themselves and makes us happy.
What is important is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And you can't really make someone to really love you.
Did you see advice all over the internet about how to attract women/men? But the real issue is that you can make someone to like you but you can't make someone to truly love you.
If someone will fall in love with you, there is no reasonable explanation why they love you or need you. It doesn't matter what your weight or height or looks at this point, you would make someone happy just the way how you are.
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When someone in love with you, they will love and cherish your "few extra pounds" just because it's part of you. They will remember every detail about you and will love to look at you. No matter how "unattractive" you may feel, it won't affect the other person in such way. If someone in love with you, there is nothing you can do to stop them loving you.
That's why men love big beautiful women and they love tall skinny women. Sometimes a man who is very attracted to thin women could be surprised if he fall in love with a big beautiful woman despite all of his "conscious" preferences. He may still find skinny women beautiful as a painting or sculpture in museum, but it wouldn't provoke intense feelings as his big beautiful woman.
Another example, a man maybe always thought that short girls are cute, but later he fall in love with a tall woman despite his preference for short women. In such case a tall woman will make him happy whereas short women would still look beautiful to him, but he would be indifferent to all of them.
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Women often worry about if they look good enough, if they are liked enough, but how much it's really important? It's only important because you think so. For some women it's more important than to others.
I always thought that Halle Berry is very beautiful and young looking woman for her age. I was almost shocked to find out that she felt "unlucky in love" , if Halle Berry is unlucky in something, then what to say about the rest of the world then?
Even the most beautiful women can't have everything they want.
So, my message to all of you is don't worry so much about whether someone likes you or doesn't like you for your looks. There is nothing you can do to make someone care much about you, if someone will love you, it's not because you deserved it or because you look good but because it's gift for you. You are amazing the way you are and someone out there could appreciate it. Even if you don't feel beautiful at the moment, maybe even judged sometimes, it's not a reason for feeling down, appreciate you what you have. I'm sure you have something that someone else wants it. Be grateful and happy for what you have in your life and it can make you feel better.