Tall skinny women - tall thin woman
Have you ever heard someone saying "I hate being skinny?" Believe it or not there are some skinny women who don't like being thin at all.
I was always very tall and skinny woman but it didn't bother me when people told me that I'm skinny. Yes, sometimes people love to say jokes about me looking thin but I don't get offended at all, I just think it's funny and laugh with them.
However there many tall skinny women who hate being very thin. They get offended by comments "You are so thin" and they do anything they can to gain extra pounds. Next time you see a small person don't automatically assume that they enjoy being thin.
I always liked being thin, so I don't see any problem with being thin or small, but some women could really get offended if they wish to look heavier.
Being tall and skinny
Everyone wants to look good, be good and liked by others. Being skinny or being heavy isn't a reason to be discriminated against.
For example, a lot of people like to tell me that I'm tall and I didn't like such comments for a long time, because it would just sound to me "You are so different from us, you are just weird" but now it bothers me less and less because I understand most people have no idea why would it bother me if they said that.
Everyone has a childhood trauma associated with our looks and people tend to blame themselves for not being good enough to please others. So, if you are heavy or skinny, try not to get offended too much because people say it out of lack of knowledge and they truly don't know how much they hurt you.
Being young, tall and skinny
I think the younger a person is the easier she could get offended. I was much easier getting angry and offended by others when I was younger. So, be careful about what you say when you are around young people. Their self esteem isn't quite formed yet, so it's important to instill good self esteem about anyone.
I think people should give each other honest praise more often. We all should focus on good qualities what we have and appreciate our differences. For example, instead of saying "You are so tall!" next time when you see a very tall woman, you better say "You are a very beautiful woman" it will make her feel much better than just telling her that she is tall.
Every woman wants to be a beautiful woman instead of just some walking tall object, so be sensitive to tall women and especially young girls. Young women are a lot more sensitive and they probably get a lot more attention and hear it more often.