Men like high maintenance women - Part 2
Men like high maintenance women - Part 2
First of all, men love younger beautiful women. Very beautiful women can easily be high maintenance women and do you know why? Because they can. When so many men are trying to offer love, money, whatever else, then of course women will take it. Honestly, a lot of men don't mind and even love to spend money on women. A lot men love to please women, work for women, do anything for women.
Many men and women express love through money, work, resources, nice words.
So many poeple are trying to blame women for being high maintenance but women do it because they can afford to.
Being high maintenance woman is a lot more than money. Every woman can have some characteristics of a high maintenance woman, and some women have them all.
High maintenance women are controlling and want to hold a power in a relationship. She wants her needs to be met and she wants her man to work really hard for her. I met such woman in my life before. It was very interesting how much her man would put up just to be with a beautiful woman. It's an extreme case. Most women have one or a few characteristics of high maintenance but all.
Spoiled high maintenance women
High maintenance women are spoiled. In fact, they are VERY spoiled. They are spoiled with attention, money, gifts, power, they have it all. Men who choose to be with a high maintenance woman are aware of all of these and they learn to adjust to her tantrums or complaints. High maintenance women can be very emotional and charming. Men aren't just attracted to her looks but also to her sweet nature and her charm.
Women do control men. High maintenance control men with beautiful looks, power, charm and sometimes sex. She knows she is the best woman and she can convince her man and others to beleive so. She will tell you that she is the most beautiful woman and you will beleive her. She will tell you that everyone is jealous of her and you will beleive her. She knows how to set up her own value and make you work for her.
Personally, I'm not a high maintenance woman, but I met some. I have some characteristics of a high maintenance woman but my belief system is much different than those who are truly high maintenance.
Men are attracted to high maintenance women
So, yes, some men are after high maintenance women. They love how she looks, they love her high self esteem and he start to beleive that she is the best and most valuable woman of all.
But in reality, any woman can become high maintenance woman if she has enough faith in it, and can come up with a cute makeover. Being high maintenance woman is not just about looks, it's about making others beleive how special you are.
Value can be just an illusion. Some people are better at convincing others they are so special while others not.
Men love high maintenance women because these women are generally good at dealing with people. They will have a lot of friends, mostly people that they can use for their own ego or demands. High maintenance women will ask for a lot of requests and expect people do it for them. If you tell no to a high maintenance woman, she can get mad and more likely to leave you because she knows there are plenty others who are dieing to serve her.
You won't know for sure if your woman is high maintenance until you get to know her closer. High maintenance women are careful, they lure people close and then make you beleive it's you are wrong and she is right. She will want more power than any other woman you had a relationship with.
So, why do men put up with this? Why do men want a high maintenance woman? Because some men really love challenge. Some men love women who are hard to get. Once a man gets attention from this beautiful high maintenance woman, he loves how she makes him feel.
Tall Corina
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