Are you tall and skinny and feel unattractive

If you are very tall and skinny woman, welcome to my world, I'm here to help to build your self esteem and tell you something interesting you need to know about body image. People don't feel good all the time, some blame it on their looks, other conditions and etc. Feeling inadequate is more a feeling from inside that formed while your were growing up, or past experiences rather than having much to do with the outside world. Yes, it's true that outside world can be cruel and brutal in your face sometimes, but the core of your inner being should be the most important of all.

How you feel inside will mostly influence your perception of yourself and your body. Even the most beautiful women don't feel "perfect" either, I heard so much from beautiful women how they wish their thighs would be thinner or stomach flatter, even if they looked perfect in my eyes.

When we want to control the outside world, it's so easy to be hard on ourselves and blame ourselves for not feeling good or not pleasing others.

The solution

One of the first steps to inner happiness is to let go of the control you crave to have. It's easier to say than do actually. The more you practice acceptance in your life of what comes your way, the easier will be to appreciate good in your life. Letting go of control doesn't mean you shouldn't try to be the best person you can be. You always have to try your best at everything you do.

There were times in my life when I didn't feel great either, I never really blamed my looks so much because I always wanted people to notice or at least try to appreciate my inner self. One of the reasons why I feel inadequate being tall is that I prefer people would pay more attention to my personality and charachter than looks.

Yes, I'm tall and it frustrated me sometimes when people pay so much attention to my look and comment about it. I don't condemn anyone for doing it to me, because they aren't tall and they don't know how it feels to be "different". I accept that I'm different and it feels alright. The world would be pretty boring place without me or you. Start to appreciate diversity and learn to enjoy to blend out than blending in.

Good news for you about being tall and skinny

If you are tall and skinny you should know you are lucky. I heard many women tell me they wish to be taller and skinnier, at first I thought maybe they were joking or tried to make me feel better, but soon I realized that they really mean it. You need to know that there are so many people out there who would love to have what you have. Many people would love to be tall and skinny.

Look at yourself carefully, it isn't as bad as you think. Figure out how you can feel good. All you want to do is to feel good. You feel bad not because you are tall and skinny, but because you think you are "different" from something that you would like to be. If you can change the way you feel about who you are, it will be a major shift in your life. Maybe it's called self growth. Most people would rather be tall and skinny, so it isn't as bad as you think.

Being attractive is not just about your looks, but how you make people feel. Did you meet some interesting people with "questionable looks" but they projected beauty and were adored by everyone? There is more to attraction than just looks. You can be a great attractive person for who you are. Try to discover yourself and enjoy the process.

Tall Corina

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