Why guys dump girls they dig and like
Why do guys dump girls they dig and like ? The answer to this question leads to his personal insecurities, plain and simple, he is avoiding future pain at all costs. Maybe he saw some signs that a girl he likes aren't loyal or he can't have long term future with her. He may like a girl but it's not enough for him to pursue her.
He has to see his future with her. Just liking a girl is not enough. He has to make sure she has something else to offer than just evoke feelings of pleasure and happiness in him. The more he likes a girl, the more he has to risk of being hurt deeply.
If a girl is very attractive, if a girl is everything he wants, but maybe he is just not ready. Men, in contrast to women, don't wait until a right girl comes along, but he waits until he is ready. Maybe a man is not ready for commitment yet even if he likes his girl. So, all he is trying to do is to avoid future pain and future heartbreak.
Lots of men are trying to focus on work and put relationships on a back burner. All it leaves a girl confused, frustrated and angry at her man for doing it to her. If a man is not ready for a relationship, he will dump a girl he really digs and likes just because he is not ready for intimacy and commitment right now.
Men who aren't ready to commit or who are looking for something different would dump a girl he actually likes. Men love women and men admire women, but sometimes they want something more out of the relationship that you can give him. He maybe wants something different than you can give him. It can be hard to understand how a guy can push a away such a great girl, but it only makes sense to him.
What he considers he needs right now at the moment from a particular girl can be completely different from what you envision. Pursue a guy who is open to talk. A guy who doesn't even want or can't explain why he dumped you, wouldn't be a good match for sure.
Another reason why men dump girls they really dig and like is if he is emotionally unavailable. yes, there are emotionally unavailable men and women. Some men are very afraid of emotional intimacy and would dump a girl who would try to get somewhat close. If you are trying to get close to emotionally unavailable men, would only backfire on you, he would dump you in heartbeat of a fear of intimacy and being close.
Men who are afraid of commitment dump girls early on. Men who emotionally unavailable dump girls early on in the relationship before it grow into something more. Men who were in love before are afraid of falling in love all over again and get rejected. Men are afraid of rejection and he is trying to push you away before you can hurt him in any way or anyhow.