How to keep a guy interested in you? It's the hardest thing of all to keep a guy interested in you only because you would have to compromise your desires. If you want to make a guy interested in you, you will have to play hard to get and make sure that he chooses to pursue you.

To make a guy interested in you, you have to take it as slow as you can, give your guy as much space that he needs, so he would start to believe that he is chasing you and you aren't as interested.

To keep a guy interested in you is the hardest thing of all only because you have to pretend that you aren't very interested. That's why most women don't keep guy interested because you have to do what you don't like - to leave a guy a lone and give him as much space as possible.

You can't overwhelm a guy with affection that would be perceived as neediness. If you try too hard to make a guy interested in you, would be perceived in a very wrong way. Your affection will be perceived as neediness or clingy, your nice behavior will be perceived as bothering...

So, if you really want to make a guy interested, you need to back off as much as possible and treat him as a complete stranger. Just because you like him and you feel like you known him forever, he might not have the same feelings about you. Just because you feel this way, he could have completely opposite feelings, so you don't want to scare him away.

So, where do you start from? All you need to do is to take one step forward and two steps back.

No matter how close you want to be to your guy, if you want to make a guy interested in you, you would have to take your actions as slow as possible. It would very uncomfortable to you though.

Every woman wants to be close to a guy she likes, but closeness and affection will drive a guy away as further as possible. It's a very common mistake among men and women, a person with the highest interest has the lowest power in the relationship. To regain your power in a relationship you would have to distance yourself and let him to try to pursue you.

If you already know that your guy will never pursue you, then you can honestly try everything you think you can, but there is no guarantee that he will need you. You can try what you can, but a guy still has his free will, his personal preferences and it's up to him what his conclusion is going be.

You can smile to him, you can be nice to him, but don't over do it. You need to match his efforts. Mirror him. Talk to him how he talks. Keep in touch the way he keeps in touch with you. Don't do more than he does for you, copy him and mirror him, it will make him to be at ease for you.